Introduction Ceremony
- The introduction ceremony is the first formal step before the wedding where families meet, exchange greetings, and establish mutual respect and goodwill.
- It is usually held at the bride’s family home and includes the exchange of symbolic gifts.
- Traditionally, the groom must inform his future in-laws of his intention to marry and get their blessing before proposing.
Eru Iyawo (Engagement List)
- Eru Iyawo is a bridal engagement list of items the groom’s family must bring on the wedding day.
- Symbolic items like alligator pepper, honey, and traditional Bible or Quran are included in the list.
- The list demonstrates the groom’s family’s appreciation for the bride’s family and community.
Engagement Rites and Rituals
- Engagement Rites involve reading from holy texts for blessings and guidance, led by a respected elder or religious leader.
- Dowry presentation symbolizes appreciation and acknowledgment of the bride’s upbringing by her family.
- Rituals like the couple’s mutual agreement capture unity and accord between families.
Traditional Attire
- The bride and groom wear matching traditional Yoruba attire, known as aso-oke, adorned with beads and embroidery.
- Aso-oke is highly esteemed as it represents Yoruba culture and tradition.
- The attire typically includes elaborate designs and accessories like gele (headgear) and traditional jewelry.
Ceremonial Highlights
- The groom performs prostrations, a gesture symbolizing respect and humility toward the bride’s family.
- Cultural music, dancing, and ‘spraying’ money enhance the vibrant and festive atmosphere of the ceremony.
- The ceremony often includes performances by talking drummers and a live band, adding to the cultural richness of the event.
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